KCB READER (Top-10 Dating Mistakes To Avoid)

If you want to change your relationships for the better, you are better to look through this list: maybe you are doing something wrong. 

1. Suspecting him

Vast of Nigerian women are sure that their men are going to leave them for anither woman. That’s why they can easily flip out when their significant other just looks (or looks like j=he is looking) or talks to another women. When you are doing such thing a guy might think you are unsecure. So try to develop your self-esteem and remember that all relationships are based on trust.

2. Respect his space

If your boy is in a bad mood and don`t want to discuss it – try not to make him even more angry. Some men don`t like to speak about their troubles and feelings so leave him alone. And remember about trust.

3. Forgetting about their selves

If you are in a long-term relationships it isn`t mean you can stop shave your legs or stop being the person you were at the beginning of your love story. You both should make efforts to keep the attraction.

4. Don`t reject your life

It is sad when a girl forgets about her hobbies and friends when she starts dating. It never ends happily. If he loves you he will not stop you from things that are important for you.

5. Be honest

Never be passive-aggressive. It annoys a lot. If something is bothering you – tell about it. Men are not mind-readers. They will probably not understand your secret tips or “telepathic” messages. If you wants something – tell about it!

6. Don`t nag

No guy in the whole universe is able to give you every single thing you want. Of course sometimes you will not be happy about something he does. And again: it is always better to tell strictly about your desires. To harp over him is a worse idea.

7. Appreciate your boyfriend

Appreciate him for things that he is doing. The more you will tell him how valuable he is – the more he will try to please you.

8. Be positive

There is no sense to blame him when he is not guilty. Each one of us has bad days, but it is better to try to be positive. It is not to cool to hang out with somebody who is grumpy. Except you are a Grumpy Cat, but probably you are not.

9. Fight with your insecurities

Yours not perfect skin or broken diet should not be turned into relationships problems. Unless he brought a big cake while you are on a diet.
he is with you now, that means he thinks you are pretty and attractive.

10. Do not try to change him (a lot)

The main thing about love is that you take a person for who she or he is. Not the one you are dreaming him to be. You better take it or leave it. When it concern some minor things like toilet seat or clothes you just can try to be more gentle and encouraging. Don`t try to make him feel stupid. Just make him to do the right decision on his own, he just need a little encouragement.